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Janice Haas's avatar

Enjoyed your story Melanie! I too, am a small-town girl trained to say hello and I must say during the last 2 years, I celebrated the smiles and hellos along our dog walking path. In a public world full of masks, those outdoor unmasked smiles were a godsend, helping me stay connected in a very weird world. I have met and gotten to know so many people in the neighborhood...there is always the one or two that seem to not want to make eye contact and I suppose that is ok too!

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Ed F's avatar

In 2020 while recovering from illnesses I began taking long walks for rehabilitation. There is a rhythm in adhering to a certain route. You observe the seasonal changes, the cycles of nature.

I was surprised at the people I would meet on my walks who wanted to talk with me. I walk briskly so I would have to slow down to talk to them. It puzzled me at first, these unwarranted conversations, but I allowed these strangers to share their thoughts for our short time together. It was like there was a hunger to connect with others no matter how briefly. I considered it a gift, no strings attached. A desire for a witness in a moment of passage.

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